I’ve been taking my daughter, Maya, camping since before she was three years old. My son, Leon, turned two years old in April. To celebrate, I took him on his first-ever kayak-camping trip, along with Maya. My wife, Rachel, wasn’t able to join us, but my dad, Grandpa John, was.
To minimize time in the boat and give us the option to bail out by land if things turned sour, we camped at Wingehaven on the east side of Vashon Island in central Puget Sound.
There was abundant marine life during the paddle to Wingehaven. The harbor seals were unusually bold, allowing us long looks at their dog-like snouts. Two California sea lions made close passes, perhaps hoping to intimidate us but only succeeding in giving us a smile.
The kids missed most of the animals. Lulled by the warm sunshine and the gentle, rocking waves, they soon both fell asleep, Maya in my boat, Leon in Grandpa John’s. When we arrived at Wingehaven, Grandpa John and I floated offshore in our boats until our passengers woke up and were ready to go ashore.
Wingehaven Park is the former grounds of an estate, once known as Twickenham after its owner’s home village in England, later renamed to Wingehaven in honor of its subsequent owners, the Winge family, who ultimately sold it to King County for use as a park. Today, all that is left of the once-ornate grounds is a few crumbling concrete balustrades and figurines.
The kids loved Wingehaven. Up in the campsite was a big grassy field, perfect for romping and for hiding Chips, one of Maya’s stuffed dogs. Down on the beach were large boulders with crabs hiding beneath, plus a stormwater outlet “waterfall.” And of course, there was our enormous, six-person tent to bounce around in.
Packing silverware was supposed to be my job, but I had forgotten. Grandpa John volunteered to hike back to the ferry terminal and bring back plastic forks and spoons from the local café.
The country road back to the ferry ran through a thick, old forest. There seemed to be no one else about until Grandpa John came upon an eccentric old woman poking along the road. She asked Grandpa John if he had seen any green beads. What do they look like? he asked. She showed him a handful of tiny beads. She did not explain what the beads were, where they had come from, or why they were now scattered across the island.
Feeling a bit like a character in a fairy tale, Grandpa John kept his eyes open as he continued down the road. After only a few steps, he spotted a tiny green bead. He called to the old woman, who bolted down the road after him, snatched the bead from his hand, and hurried off in the opposite direction.
A mile further down the road, when Grandpa John was at last nearing the café, he heard the old woman’s voice calling him, thanking him. How had she made it all the way here before him? But when he looked for her, there was no one there.
Only a handful of visitors came by all weekend, and only on Sunday. Wingehaven is accessible by road, but drivers have to park hundreds of yards above the park and descend on foot a steep, bumpy road that is closed to private vehicles. Few drivers were intrepid enough to make the journey down to the old estate, and we were the only kayakers.
On the way home, both children promptly fell asleep in the boats. Once again, Grandpa John and I bobbed in the water by the terminal, watching the ferries come and go, until first Maya woke up and then Leon.
When we got home, Leon told Rachel all about our adventures, using only single words because he could not yet speak complete sentences: “crab, rock, hiding” and “seal, water, swim” and “tent, sleeping bag.”
Leon was right. Those are the most important parts of any trip.
—Alex Sidles